Hello guys, I have recently discovered that fear does a lot of damages in our lives. Last year I went through a phase where it took the grace of God to get me out and then i realised that fear was controlling and ruining my life. In marriages, we fear what people would say and do that we end up missing the point. Is anyone going to be in the marriage with you? We are only accountable to God so why do we let people play god in our lives?
Whilst being afraid of what others think about our marriage, we end up hurting the ones we claim to love and start building walls that cannot be broken easily. I have written about forgiveness inthe past and that is the greatest weapon in a marriage. One person earns more than the other, so what? You are partners so why not put your hands together and plan? How many people come and ask who is the higher earner?
If you have such friends you need to rethink that friendship. Your partner should be your best friend, gossip partner everything. If your partner offends you, take it to God in prayers. As humans we tend to make a big deal about little things. Before sleeping angry ask yourself if you didn't wake up next to your partner how would you feel. Life is too short so we need to leatn to really show love always and live at peace with all especially our better half. One day at a time. God bless
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