Monday, 9 July 2012
The Beginning
Hello people, so I was thinking this morning; growing up men & women seem to have pre conceived image of the kind of partner they want to marry. From the caring, comfortable, rich partner; to the God fearing submissive and homely one. So my question again is wherE do we go wrong? Is it that there are no good people out there? Does everyone deceive their partner whilst dating? If you are a Christian and you want a God fearing partner; you need to first of all be right with God. If you are not right with God, he will not grant your hearts desire. People serve God in different ways and many deceive others but within one's self, you know the truth.
Let's start from the beginning. We meet someone, what attracts us to this person? Are they physical or personality attributes? The answer to this first question will determine if you are with the right person or not. The next step is when you feel you are in love. The ALL MIGHTY word LOVE. Next question, why do you love them? Looks, money, smartness, cooking, behaviour towards others? The list goes on. My next question is; is love enough? One reason is not enough to spend the rest of your life with someone. Life throws a million challenges your way once married that even that one reason you married that person would not be enough to hold it. Let me leave you yet again to ponder on these questions. See yah nd takia.
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ReplyDeleteWell done for starting the blog. I really like his post. As a single lady (in a relationship and not married) I'd definitely say that we all walk into relationships with preconceived notions. Sometimes as ourselves, as representatives of ourselves or as a completely different person. I believe that you can never really know a person, only what they share with you.
ReplyDeleteWe can only pray for God to give us what is ours and the patience to wait for it to come our way.
Either way we are all tested in our relationships and it's how we react in the midst of those tests that determine whether or not what you have is for you or if it will even last.